Why I Had to March in Pride this Year: #SFPrideResist

I marched in the Pride Parade this week for the first time in many, many years. I needed to.

Recent Pride festivals have been all celebration and parties. Great fun! And, a real spectacle for the just-arrived refugees and asylum seekers that my church has been helping settle in San Francisco.  I loved showing off the Chief of Police marching in Pride to a man who was beaten by his hometown police just a few months ago. And, of course, the floats and marching contingents with scantily clad eye candy impress newcomers and jaded old men alike!

I have watched most Pride marches in the past 20 years as a happy spectator. Some years, we’ve been complacent enough to skip them altogether and go directly to cocktails with friends. The parades were geared for fun and for younger, heartier partiers than I am.

Galen at Justin Herman Plaza with a Protest Sign

Galen at the Start of the March

This year was different.

The rights of LGBT community, non-white, and non-Christian people are under attack by the United States government.

Under the guise of “security”, President Trump and his supporters are focusing on all types of minorities as problems which pose a danger and must be excluded from their version of American society.

They put up roadblocks to freedom for the weak refugees and asylum seekers. They gut Federal equality rules, saying that the States should decide whether or not discrimination is okay.

Geoffrey, Junior, Melanie and others behind the SF Pride RESIST banner

The Pride Board’s RESIST Banner that we Walked Behind

They abandon decades-old policies of encouraging democracy and the respect for human rights around the world. Instead, they now ignore the organized murder of gay people in Chechnya and the jailing and killing of political opponents by dictatorial regimes so long as the oppressors are servile and fawning to Trump’s face.

So, this year at Pride, we needed to say that we are not going along with the immoral policies of the Trump administration.

Geoffrey and I marched with the SF Pride Board RESIST contingent. The theme was political, not purely festive.

Man with a microphone leading the group chantsMelanie, the Vice President of this year’s Pride committee, invited one of the Guardian Group’s clients to join her contingent which proclaimed that refugees are welcome here. Geoffrey and I were also asked to walk in solidarity with the refugees and asylum seekers, and a group from our allies at the Jewish Family and Community Services of the East Bay (JFCS/EB) came, too.

We were the first group on foot in the parade, following the Dykes on Bikes (“The Women’s Motorcycle Contingent”), the traditional parade vanguard.

All the way down Market Street we smile, waved,…  and yelled our resistance.

The call-and-response varied somewhat, but the theme was consistent: RESIST.

  • They say Muslim ban, we say…   RESIST
  • They say “no” to refugees, we say… RESIST
  • RESIST… RESIST!
Pride Vice President Melanie Nathan on Market Street

Pride Vice President Melanie Nathan on Market Street

Along the whole parade route, the crowds on the sidewalk responded and encouraged us. They applauded, waved, and joined in the chanting. We and the crowd were happy, festive, and political!

After we passed by, later in the parade, there were pretty frolicking boys and girls celebrating their freedom. Politicians rode in their cars, organizations showcased their Pride, and corporations proclaimed their support of their queer employees. All good.

But, this year I am glad that the Pride committee led off the celebration with a bite of resistance.

Eternal vigilance is the price of liberty. This Pride I hope we contributed a bit to American freedom.

#SFPrideRESIST wristband

By |2017-06-27T15:19:24-07:00June 27, 2017|Politics, San Francisco|1 Comment

The Trump Revolution I Worry About Most , Part II

Revolutions are caused by frustrated expectations.  Not by grinding poverty or by evil oppression.

Historically, people revolt and riot when their expectations are raised and reality doesn’t match what they expect.

Fists Raised in Protest

So, I worry about the United States in the Trump era.

Blacks, Latinos, LGBT, Jews, Muslims, professional women, and other minority groups have become used to being treated with respect — and maybe even deference — by the government, corporations, and the press. They have come to expect society to deride prejudice. Claims of discrimination have been be weapons of shame.

Over decades, Congress passed equality laws. Politicians damned bigotry. News and documentaries “exposed” intolerance.  The cultural norm said that biases were bad.

Trump’s campaign abandoned decades of caution and civility. He and his team used inflammatory language against a rainbow of non-white people. They made immigrants — both legal and undocumented — into boogeymen. And, when they didn’t actively target a minority, they were abysmally silent in condemning violence or overt hatred by others.

This departure from the past norms has continued into his Presidency. He banned Muslims from entering the United States, even when they were legal permanent residents. He has eliminated rules that required government contractors to employ people regardless of their sexual orientation. He has repeated failed to publicly condemn acts of violence against Jewish synagogues. Just this week his Attorney General signaled a retreat from holding police departments accountable for prejudicial enforcement of the law.

He has promoted fear in other non-Christian communities, including the deliberate harassment by Homeland Security officials of well-known American citizen Muslims like Mohammed Ali, Jr. It sent a message to Muslims everywhere. If a well-known American Muslim can be harassed, what do you think will happen to you?

Minority communities mostly didn’t vote for Trump. So, their frustration and hostility might be expected. But, the depth of their feelings of being deprived of a right is nevertheless dangerous when thinking of the potential Trump revolution. People are scared. More importantly, they are surprised, self defensive, and angry.

People who have fought for equality in the part and earned more equal treatment are now suddenly being told to like the back of the bus. It’s unrealistic to expect minorities to meekly accept a return to the 1950’s-style of police brutality and societal neglect.

What will happen?

What will happen the next time a police officer kills an unarmed person of color and the community sees no support for an investigation coming from Washington?

Burning Tires in Protest

The potential for revolution frustration goes beyond the expected malcontents. too.

Trump’s proposed actions threaten the well being of people voted for him. The Republican repeal of Obamacare that is temporarily sidelined will hurt working families the most. Trump’s proposed budget guts agencies that have help local governments sustain programs that give food, housing, and education to lower- and middle-class citizens.

Poorer white people who find themselves without health coverage, assistance from the local (but Federally-funded) housing authority, food from Federally subsidized programs, student loans, and other “big government” benefits are also going to be scared and frustrated. Their future is threatened. They may stick with Trump, and turn on whichever group Trump decides to blame for his policies. But, they will lash out against someone when grandma gets priced out of assisted living and has to move in with Mom, Dad, and the two kids.

Man in a walker

What will happen?

By |2017-04-06T20:47:56-07:00April 6, 2017|Politics|0 Comments

The Trump Revolution I Worry About Most , Part I

Revolutions are caused by frustrated expectations.  Not by grinding poverty or by evil oppression.

Historically, people revolt and riot when their expectations are raised and reality doesn’t match what they expect.

White Fists Raised

So, I worry about the United States in the Trump era.

This man has given iron-clad promises to do the impossible.  He is guaranteeing border security and crime-free neighborhoods, well-paid manufacturing jobs, and a return to a time when everything was “Great”. He is going to make the evil Federal Government smaller while simultaneously launching wide-spread construction projects for the country’s transportation infrastructure.  He’s lowering taxes while increasing spending. He’s repealing Obamacare, and making sure that everyone has medical coverage.

His Inauguration speech doubled-down on the high-level rhetoric filled with visions of new America. He pledged that Washington’s self-serving politicians had been vanquished, and the People are in charge again.

Many people believe him. They love his straight-forward, blunt statements.  They are excited that someone in power is offering them everything they yearn for. Let’s return to the safe, secure, prosperous days that we enjoyed before technology claimed jobs, foreign countries challenged our International supremacy, and straight white people had to respect and share power with minorities.

Nothing Trump swears he’s going to do are ideas unique to him. All parties want better jobs in the United States, better infrastructure, and more individual financial and physical security. The Devil is — and always has been — how you achieve these universal goals.

Still, Trump’s supporters are deliriously happy that Trump is going to deliver on all of vows.

And, I am worried about what’s going to happen as time passes and everything doesn’t become magically better. Trump and the Republican in Congress have offered no positive, detailed proposals to do anything that furthers the blue-sky promises of the new President. In fact, many of Trump’s goals conflict with each other or have no way of being achieved.

  • The government cannot rebuild the country’s infrastructure and at the same time get smaller.
  • How is the government going to make sure everyone has better health care with smaller costs to individuals and lower out-of-pocket costs?
  • Will Republican deficit hawks in Congress really pass budget-busting increases in military spending while drastically lowering taxes?
  • How is the less regulatory government going to get US companies to move production, jobs, and corporate money back to this country?

Moreover, Trump’s personnel picks so far are extremely rich corporate executives who favor policies that have contributed to the decline of the Middle Class.  From the Secretary of Labor who fights minimum wage and workplace safety laws to the Secretary of State who is cozy with Russian oligarchs, Trump’s men have no history of helping average Americans.  They are the 1% of the 1%, and about as un-populist as possible.

What is going to happen when Trump doesn’t deliver on his promises? When Congress refuses to pass tariffs to punish companies who import electronics from Asia, when a lone-wolf terror attack hits an American city, or when Republicans refuse to fund rail projects because of rising deficit?

White Protestors Holding Banners - cartoon

Those people who honestly believe that Trump will deliver on his pledges are going to be frustrated. They are going to be angry.  They will feel betrayed.

Many of Trump supporters feel that he is the last hope for their ideal of America.  What will they do when they get laid off or get a pay cut, even though their President is in charge.

What will happen?

By |2017-04-06T20:46:56-07:00January 20, 2017|Politics|1 Comment

The Inauguration Playlist

When President Trump is inaugurated we will need appropriate music to mark the occasion.

Considering the playlist for the day took me back to the rage, resistance, and riots in the 1960’s and 70’s.  At that time the government routinely took great liberties with the truth, especially concerning the progress of the Vietnam War.  The citizens — especially us idealistic kids — marched, protested, and sang.

The country almost fell apart until the war ended and a decent man, Gerald Ford, became President.

Trump’s disregard for facts and the quickness to fight make me fear that the songs I came of age with are needed again.

Here’s what we’ve got on tap to play on January 20th.  Your suggestions for additional songs are welcome!

Sample individual songs below or see and hear them all on YouTube.

  • Eve of Destruction by Barry McGuire
  • Lives in the Balance by Jackson Browne
    (Suggested by Harlan Kerr)
  • Political Science (Let’s Drop the Big One Now) by Randy Newman
  • Don’t Use Your Penis for a Brain By Romanovsky & Phillips
  • Fortunate Son by Credence Clearwater Revival
  • Universal Soldier by Donovan
  • My Back Pages by the Byrds
  • Red Necks by Randy Newman
  • Sail Away by Randy Newman
  • Tomorrow Belongs to Me from Cabaret
    (Suggested by Steve Zink)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FN7r0Rr1Qyc

  • Something Bad from Wicked
    (Suggested by Steve Zink)
  • So Long Mom by Tom Lehrer
    (Suggested by Mary Stanton-Anderson)
  • This Land is Your Land by Woodie Guthrie
  • Blowin’ in the Wind by Judy Collins

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i5RMEs3ToB0

  • One Tin Soldier by the Original Caste
  • With God on Our Side by Bob Dylan

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M7FKyouUIsQ

  • Where Have All the Flowers Gone by Joan Baez

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0LZ2R2zW2Yc

Sky Pilot By Eric Burdon and the Animals

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BP0IXOr9O8U

  • Ohio by Crosby, Still, Nash, and Young
  • For What It’s Worth by Buffalo Springfield
  • Singing for Our Lives by Holly Near
  • Heaven’s Here on Earth by Traci Chapman
    (Suggested by Ben Bear)
  • Everyday People by Sly and and Family Stone
  • Get Up, Stand Up by Bob Marley
  • Turn, Turn, Turn by the Byrds
  • The Lunatics Have Taken Over the Asylum by Fun Boy Three
    (Suggested by Brad Gaffney)
  • Sympathy for the Devil by the Rolling Stones

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vBecM3CQVD8

  • The End of the World as We Know It (And I feel fine) by R.E.M.
    (Suggested by David Pruden)
  • We Shall Overcome by Pete Seeger
  • Them Belly Full (But We Hungry) by Bob Marley and the Wailers
  • Imagine by John Lennon
By |2017-01-17T18:37:36-08:00January 15, 2017|Politics|3 Comments

It’s Not Locker Room Talk, It’s Jail House Bragging

Donald Trump successfully tricked America into talking about his recorded boasting about his sexual assaults as “locker room talk”.  He admits not being proud of his recorded language, but he’s clear that to linger on the topic of his abuse of women would be giving in to political correctness.

Donald Trump talking in his cellWhen I first heard Trump’s comments, I honestly didn’t think of locker room talk. Instead, I thought of crook’s bragging caught on a hidden wire worn by a jail house cellmate who was hoping for a reduced sentence for his own misdeeds.

Trump didn’t just speculate about his future success with a particular woman or all women or all pretty women. He described actual past and current actions. He was bragging about his past assaults.  He was planning immoral actions which, it turns out, he routinely carried out in the real world.

Locker room talk like Trump wants us to associate with his recording is often focused on sex and the speaker’s desirability to the people he, himself, lusts after. You use words that you don’t want your grandmother to know that you know.

But, locker room talk, at least in my decades of personal experience, carries an element of respect for the lust object and a hope that the lust object will really return your feeling.

“How can anyone resist me? I know they want me!” is different than Trump’s historical-sounding report on how he takes what he wants from women.  More than anything, Trump’s words belong in a how-to book on molestation.

Of course, the serious problem from Trump is that more and more real-world women are coming forward to say that he did to him what he bragged about on tape and in other interviews.  He has committed a series of sexually motivated batteries.  He is right, though, that his perceived wealth and social power have inoculated him against any legal consequences so.

Early on Friday, Trump’s running mate, Governor Mike Pence, proclaimed on the Today show that evidence disproving Trump’s accusers would be released in hours (see the Today show news.)   No evidence has been released so far.  For good reason, I suspect. I can believe that the Trump team may find a discrepancy in a detail, or perhaps one of the many women coming forward will be a publicity-seeking liar.   Maybe. But, there’s no body of evidence ready to clear Trump of his immoral behavior.  There just isn’t.

Donald Trump’s own boastful jail house words clearly set out his pattern and behavior toward women. His ongoing public comments about women’s looks, his rating of their attractiveness, and his comments on their menstrual cycles are consistent with his Trump-take-all physical actions.

If objecting to a powerful, wealthy man forcing his physical attentions on women is simple political correctness, then I guess I am simply politically correct. If objecting to the judging a woman on her appearance and seeing her only in sexual terms is politically correct, then, sure, color me politically correct.

On the other hand, if you believe that bragging about your assaults and your ongoing abusive behavior is simply forgivable locker room talk, then I hope you (if you’re a woman), your wife, your mother, your sisters, and your daughters grow strong and gain self-respect to protect themselves against predators like Trump.

Trump was bragging about his deeds like a bad guy in the jail house caught on a wire. He wasn’t just sleaze talking in the locker room.

By |2016-10-14T19:51:48-07:00October 14, 2016|Politics|0 Comments
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